I think her confusion is a good sign, but just because I say that I don't want to give you hope. Spouses can yo-yo for a long time (and there are plenty of people here who will tell you that!), and that can be painful for the LBS so I don't want you going there.
Let her contact you. And when she does, just be a great listener and be a friend like you are doing. That way there's a *chance* of reconciliation, and if not you will be this amazing great listener and friend that the next woman is never going to want to let go of!
I hope you make some great plans for the weekend!!! The weather has been awesome lately... hot, but a nice breeze here in So. Cal. I'm sure it's paradise up where you are. Get out and enjoy it.
One more thing, when you have the kids do SUPER FUN family-type things together. Even take photos and give them to the kids. Let her miss out on fun family events. Let her regret what she has lost. Hang in there buddy!!! Try to enjoy the time for yourself too.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
