Hi Randy, count your blessings. You two are together, building a relationship, I wish me and my ex was at least on speaking terms. She says she was miserable when we were married, she is miserable now, she guessed she is condemded to life a miserable life. You are where I would love to be. Hand in there.
I hope so Randy, its just now that the only time we ever have any contact is over our son. And that always ends up bad. She can't accept the fact that he is mad at her because of this divorce. She thinks he should be happy, respectful, and loving towards her. She doesn't see that she has hurt him as much as she has me. Maybe she will wake up some day. Keep up the good work, remain patient. Your goals are within sight.
I hope you had a good weekend.We went to XW parnets fri night for supper then she partied with a girlfriend.The next day I didn't mention a thing about it and she had to tell me everything that happened and that they stayed home.Everything was good. She ended up doing some remodleing at my house and moving furniture around again.If she isn't thinking about coming home why would she be doing all this?But anyway she was at the house all day last 3 days.
In my sit I can't figure why she just won't come home.What can be said or how do WAW come home we spend lots of time together but i want and need more in a R.
I had a really good weekend,X even stayed the night friday.Nothing physical happened but thats a big step for her since we live in a small town and she knew somebody would know it.It seems more and more of her stuff shows up at my house and stays so I hope thats a good sign.I just have to figure out my next steps
We are really busy right now with other stuff so even though X is coming around the house we are there at different times.It's funny because there hasn't been and physical touching are anything but when we walk by each other it's like I can feel it and maybe one day she will just make the move.I asked her about it and she just said to relax.I get tired of that but I see bigger baby steps every day.I really hope she moves back while I am gone. I think she will stay at my house with the kids.Our anniversery is while I am gone too so I think I will have a rose sent to her on that day.
How do you go about her staying the night??? I have posted here a few times but I am in MLC trying to help others with WAW. I always spend time over ex-h house as well but he has never spoke about me staying the night. How long has it taken you to get to this point? How long were you divorced? Sorry you probably told me before but my life has been so crazy, I forgot.
