Its great that you think the way you do... kudos to you. But its important that you probably stay out of it. This is somebody's wedding day .. but that doesn't mean that you have to hang around with him. keep your distance and try and enjoy the day.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.