VJ, there was a discussion going around a few months ago about this very thing. I was also having some questions about if I even possessed the ability to love again. I was wondering what was wrong with me because I just didn’t feel like the fireworks would ever happen for me again. Well, the fireworks still haven’t gone off, but I’ve decided that I’m ok with that. I think the general consensus was that it’s normal to be a bit overly cautious this time around. I think it was also the consensus that communication was crucial. Have you shared your feelings with him? I would bet that having been divorced twice and having kids of his own he would be understanding about all of these things.
I believe it’s important to set the tone for being open and honest early, the longer you hold things in it tends to become harder to talk about it rather than easier. All in all I would say it sounds like you’re doing great and the things you are feeling are totally normal. If he has any sense at all he’ll be patient and understanding because he knows it’s soooooo worth it, if it means he gets to spend time with a classy lady like you.
Oh Ya, I'll have a shot of Patron thanks. Woo Hoo!
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