Thanks Chris, we have come a LONG way. Like your H, my H said he was DONE. He said he was 110% sure he wanted a D. I let him go and his fantasy life became a reality....and it wasn't much fun anymore.
I am glad he is going to the wedding too. I would hate to be going alone....I already had to do that last October and it was horrible. It was WAY to fresh then.
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If she's getting attention (even bad) she is staying linked to you and your marriage. I think if he is done truly, that perhaps I'd mention something like..... "in light of what you told me about your concerns with OW. I was thinking perhaps it would be best if all communication (even responses to hers) were totally cut off".
I have thought that too. I definitely don't want her linked to my marriage! I have thought about asking him to write her a no contact letter with me. The time hasn't been right until now. I think now he may do that....but again, she is relentless. She may see that as a challenge and try to get him back...which is crazy because she lives 1000 miles away. H has said that she has threatened to come here because she is scared we are getting back together. It may just be best to ignore her altogether.
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And yes, that was EXTREMELY rude of her to contact him.
Ha! I don't know why this struck me as funny....I guess because I don't think she cares about being rude....she did move in with my H afterall. She really is a piece of work.
