Hi T! I agree with Jeff and Lisa, a short friendly email, leave it at that. Also, I reckon he just loves those heartfelt tunes and the lyrics were sooo personal, plus, he would've had it all worked out before he heard from you.
If there was ANYTHING going on with asian girl, it would have been obvious I think, so she is clearly just a mate. Was she not sat with anyone else at all? Was she by herself?
Sounds like you did amazingly well though and it was a really intense, significant evening for you, in your life...at least you were there, and you experienced his (first??) non classical gig and he wanted you to be there/was happy for you to be there and you got on well.
I cant wait to hear if you contact him/he contacts you!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread