Awe Kris............. you just gave me warm fuzzies. I LOVE that you and H are starting to use each others LL's and that he was so touched. You give me more hope than you know. Perhaps I should get that book, although right now I'm not sure it would be useful in my situation.
I'm so glad he'll be going to the wedding with you. Weddings are just awesome for creating warm fuzzy loving feelings.
As for OW, UGH! I just don't know. In a way as much as I know I would want to confront her too, I think you might be best to ignore her. If she's getting attention (even bad) she is staying linked to you and your marriage. I think if he is done truly, that perhaps I'd mention something like..... "in light of what you told me about your concerns with OW. I was thinking perhaps it would be best if all communication (even responses to hers) were totally cut off". And then ask him how he feels about that. I honestly think if you and him totally ignored her she'd eventually disappear. And yes, that was EXTREMELY rude of her to contact him.
Chris
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__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
