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Hi john,

glad things are still ok for you.

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but I am telling it like it is....the rollercoaster continues....it's a much much tamer one though (kiddy ride).
This is so true.

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I am getting ready to watch Italy and France square off in the rematch of the world cup. It is very possible that it will be a nothing game since Romania probably will beat Holland.
can't say I' be sad to see the back of either Italy or France. \:\)

Lan

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Lanzo,
I thought you may have a lttle Italian in you....where are you from? England?

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OK, before I get totally crazy (kickoff in 1 hr.)....
W just called to postpone our golf game on Friday afternoon. Apparently one of her friend's husband has a secondary role in a B movie which is being premiered at a local film festival and the girls have been invited. I have no problem with this whatsoever, however, she did not even ask if I wanted to go (maybe that's a blessing because I do not). I would imagine that some of the ladies will be accompanied by their significant others. She has always been into this so called "glamour" stuff (she really eats it up....including magazines etc.). Something does not feel right here...I don't mean in a OM kind of way. I am all for participating in different activities (not always as a couple), however, this would have been a good opp. for me to meet her new girlfriends.
So here comes my long winded question. Do I bring this up or do I let it slide right off my back? Again, I don't want to go but would have liked to have been asked.
Here is my "problem"...if the roles were reversed, i think she would be pissed.

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John,

The italians look like they are through so I'll get back to piecing.

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Do I bring this up or do I let it slide right off my back?
You could mention somthing in passing, but not make an issue of it. However, let it slide cos you don't really want to go do you.

Lan

PS I'm in England but don't hold it against me. \:\)

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ITALY is through.....penalty kick / red card and Ribery injured...how could they lose?

I'll let the other thing slide....thanks

J

sorry about England...now that you have an Italian manager (not a Swede)...maybe better days ahead ;-)

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i tried to make it slide like lan suggested but i guess i am a little like k...as soon as there was a little opening.....i made it funny but she got the message. actually i even reinforced the message once or twice. she actually compared her evening to me going to watch a hockey game with some friends. interesting comparison.

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So, W didn't see anything wrong with going by herself, you didn't want to go anyway, I think it is going to be just fine. Good night John. You are doing so well...........


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Tonight is the wife / girl's night out and i am fine with that. I will take the opportunity to see the boys.
I find myself getting more and more involved with my w's new business ventures and partners. W even has said stuff (while on the couch)like I am lucky to have you, ILY etc. Like Lanzo, the nudge nudge has died down and i attribute that to the stress related to W's businesses. We actually spoke about that last night. We also spoke about our respective parents and how they are reacting differently to all this. My parents have gone semi dark. They did call me on my birthday and I did call them on father's day after I went over and they were out. W brought it up because she thinks my parents are great and does not want them to judge her (unfortunately it is too late.....no i did not tell her that).
In conclusion, things are moving on nicely. We have had some rather tumultuous work related conversations since we are both pretty fiery. That will be a challenge for us as my implication in her company continues to grow. We will see. I am not yet convinced that it is the best thing for me professionally or personally. I guess the best case scenario would be to work for her as a consultant and exchange my work for sex. This way when her 30 days are up, I can go collect and she will not be able to refuse to pay or I will have to charge her interest.

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what is your interest rate?


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Originally Posted By: john210
I guess the best case scenario would be to work for her as a consultant and exchange my work for sex. This way when her 30 days are up, I can go collect and she will not be able to refuse to pay or I will have to charge her interest.
John, What a deal, you can work for each other simultaneously and save a lot of time! She can pick your brain while you ... [censored].

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