I really hope you will keep posting! I posted on your other thread, too. This is a journey you're on, and you sound incredibly strong and forgiving already, seeing several silver linings. But, journeys can take many turns and those were some big bombs that were dropped. So, I hope you stick with us, and stick with some kind of supportive counseling in your RL. Just keep reaching out, telling the truth, and you will find many sources of people that want to help.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
HC, part of my ILYB bomb was learning about multiple affairs, both E & P, that I hadn't known about.
I have no advice to offer, just wanted to say that I understand the size of the bomb that just landed on you. Take it easy, be gentle with yourself - you're recovering from a shock.
Thanks for your lovely words. My head is all over the place at the moment and I think I will just re-read some of your posts when I'm starting to get a bit dragged down by it all. You have given me alot of time over the last week or so, and I really appreciate it.
Lots of love from Happycamper x
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
Lots of love to you too, HC. You have been in my prayers. Oddly enough, your husband has been in my prayers, too. He is still and will always be your kids' father, and he needs to be as healthy as he can for them, always.
I hope your family can all recover as well as possible.
I saw in your other thread you made a comment like "who is going to want me now with 4 kids". I just want to tell you to please toss that notion away at this time. That is not on your horizon right now. Just get through each day at a time. Someday when the idea of another man may be on your horizon, then you can and will find support for how to navigate through the romance world again. But until then, it is nothing to concern yourself with, except to say, that YES you are lovable, and OF COURSE you will have love again. :0)
