Quoting RandyH: My question is how do you get them to go over the edge and come back when they are so close?My X is at the house every night and doing
more and leaving stuff there but she won't come back yet,do you just have to wait them out or what?
Well Randy, it looks like your W is literally baby stepping her way back to you. You have to keep being patient and continue doing what works, but don't be afraid to keep trying or revisit changes to search for more of what works.
Now that W has said herself "we're dating". It could be a sign that she is consider taking the R to the next level. Have you asked her out on a "real" date. It might be time to. Just the two of you ... formal attire ... dress to "kill" ... greet her with flowers ... some Fine Dining ... maybe a little night dancing afterwards ... quiet walk in a park ... or scenic overlook to park ... well you get the picture.
