I dunno how it is for other Women but it really isnt about looks for me ( my h is good looking \:\( BTW).... it is about how my H makes me feel.
Yes, but I don't mean "What if I'm ugly?" That ship sailed long ago. I mean "What if I'm not attractive?" In other words, what if nothing I do makes her feel attracted to me? Frankly I don't care if I'm never "pretty" as long as my wife wants me. But she doesn't. The way I make her feel . . . apathetic, apparently.
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Example.... you come up behind her and kiss her neck "seductively" and hug her from behind and leave it at that.
Depends on the day. She might smile as she pulls away from me. If she forgets to be diplomatic, she'll say something like "Would you stop it?" Hugs are great. Anything as sexual as kissing her neck is inappropriate.
Your husband is a lucky man. I'm sure you had some really lousy times, but I'd jump for joy if my wife cared enough to try to do what you're doing. I hope it works out!
