I've just picked up looking at this BB again . You sound like where I would like to be . W had EA - found out in Jan. Is adamant about D . I have very recently let go Emotionally - since then getting on better . But she is doing up house to sell . I think now that time apart will do us good and am trying to focus on the 2 children (2 girls 3 and 5 ). Not sure if it helps but have recently refound my faith and have given it all to God . Its out of my hands and I now feel that I am not on trial anymore. But back to your sitch. I have loads of people telling me to get out - but I know if she changed her mind I would take her right back - I suspect we would both need some counselling.
My view is I stand a better chance than OM
1. I am father of our 2 children 2. Our relationship (15yrs married 10) has gone through thick and thin - her current one is still in New and exciting mode 3. As a Christian I believe we were bought together !! 4. At the moment she is denying her faith - won't go to church -- because she knows deep down what she is doing is wrong.
So I am accepting the sitch - trying to enjoy life and look for the +ve
Its like she is trying to find justification for what she has done - I am long past the relationship she has with OM - I am partly to blame for things as well .
How have you dealt with Children through the D or am I getting my threads mixed up ??
