Your points are well taken. It takes a lot of time and patience to get what you truly want. I know my ex is seeing someone else, although she refuses to admit it. I have done some pretty awful things, accusing her, snooping and things like that. I may have blown things for good, but somehow I don't think so. I know things are set back, but if I stay the course, be her friend, and above all forgive I know we will be back together.
Randy things are going so good for you, I am really happy, God Bless you and your family.