separated on the shores of lake erie

[Neilh23]

thanks loial. i like your name......from the wheel of time series?

the link for my sitch is up top in my original post for this forum.

I'm in the dunkirk/fredonia area.....about 2 hours from rochester.

there is a lot to my sitch....and i know it's just a piece of paper..and that in NY you need to be separated a year before anything becomes official. and a lot can change in a year. and if i let myself act down, then i WILL create what i look to avoid.... hwich is a divorce. it's difficult right now, but in a way it's going to be a relief. no more argueing about it, no more worrying about it. it'll be done.....