I don't know how to atach all of thetopics or probably don't remember all the names.It started 3 years ago with the bomb and EA with other guy.Seperated for 1 1/2 years until I tried to use D to scare her into working didn't work.So now we have been D for 1 1/2 years.We spent time together off and on.I would start pushing and she would run.They are going to say whatever it takes to get their space. We even went on vacation together last year.In april she had surgery and I was there the whole time since then we have been together all but 2 days at least eating supper and hanging out.We have finally started going out some just us 2.We leave on vacation next saturday. She said just the other day that she guessed if we could be around each other that long there was hope.If she gets pissy with me about something I can just say fine then lets go back to acting like we were D.She told me she is trying and I believe her.I think she is finally realizing that everyone else left her but me even with the OM I was still there and have never brought it up since.If you forgive someone you can't bring up the past as punishment.She still has issues and believe me there are times that she will get upset about something that I think like why do I want back in this and then I remember how much I love her so here I am.I hope this gives you some kind of idea.There were the threats from her and I had to deal with knowing the OM was there and all the issues everyone else her deals with.
