I hope I do.last night we went to supper and I wasn't having a real good day and was griping at the kids and she started on me and said somethingabout not being in a R that she argued and I said you won't have to worry about it after tonight if thats what you want.Everything was fine after that and we talked when we got home and just told her that I wasn't perfect and if thats what she expected thatn we might as well stop trying now and then it was from her "what you want to give up"?so now she is asking.She said she was trying but she just didn't have the desire to have those I want to be close feelings.We are going on vacation next week and she is going to dinner with me so we will see.She did say she didn't think that she could just move back in.So I suggested that she stay sometimes and keep her apt for a while and we could start by not sleeping together.