Boy oh boy do I hope that your H isn't getting involved with OW again. I'll still come down and kick his a$$ for you, although not for the same reasons now. This time to make him stop & think about all that's gone on with OW and how he KNOWS she's done this in the past to her H. Your H would just end up another notch on her wall. Who knows, maybe she contacted him first. Still no reason for calling her back, but you just never know. I do understand the hunches though. They usually aren't wrong.
I'm glad to hear that your H had agreed to not introduce anyone into the girl's lives for a year after a D. I have absolutely NO intention of doing that to D4. My H on the other hand, as you know, has already in a way, done that. And the OW in my sitch....well, let's just go ahead and move the kids right in with my H and really turn their world up side down!! I've been doing a lot of reading on how to talk to your preschool kids about D and what to expect from them as far as how they'll react. I can't imagine putting my D4 into a situation that would make things any worse for her.
How's things in St. Louis? I'm so proud of you for planning on running that race. I'm sorry for your friend's sitch right now. I hope this run gives her a few hours of peace away from what she's dealing with.
Well, give those girls a hug & know that I'm thinking of you.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
