Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

So I'm posting this here because I think it's a better spot, but the latest in my story is here

The latest

Anyway I know she is going out with him tonight. I really appreciate her honesty and I found out yesterday that it's better to know than to wonder.

I don't want to do anything right away but I'm wondering if I'm doing the right thing. Should I set more boundaries when it comes to this? If I do she'll probably just have her mom watch the kids. Although since her mom is sick it may limit the exposure. I'm definitely uncomfortable with it, but not sure I should tell her that since it may just make her be deceitful again. It's also disrespectful, but I know her mind is in the clouds and she's not seeing these things.

I'm hoping that you wise DB's may have some ideas on what to do or how to deal with this issue.

Lynn