As for having alone time together. We went to a soccer game a couple of weeks ago.. and our team one Hurray! But other than that the only alone time we have together are if D2 is napping or after she goes down to bed for the night.
I agree.. We are in very similar sitchs with the hanging out together regularly.. and contact regularly... and most importantly the firmly in Stage 2.
He always comes to the house.. although we do often meet for a coffee nearby his work whenever I have to come in to the city for an appointment.
I'm going to bounce back to your thread and see if you've responded to my posting. I forgot to ask you something.
Hugs, W2G
PS. Thank you for saying that you feel I'm strong. I don't necessarily look at it as a sign of strength.. moreso reality. I can't continue to maintain this house, take care of me, D2 and start working a full time job again... Actually, I take that back. I can do all of it.. I just don't want to because I lose me in the process. There just isn't enough time and I just don't have enough energy to do it all. That's why I want to move.
I saw that you dropped by on mine for a quick visit. I hope your day is going real well. I hope your D2 catches on quick. It was nice for me to enter into my DD14's life a whole bunch of years after that stage
Just stopping to say hello and thinking of you. I hope your days' going well. I was really pleased that H said he had a great day yesterday. Rightly so- spending it with beautiful you and the next generation Where (as T would say!).
I guess like all the WAS, he needs time. Or perhaps a radical 180! Not that I have any suggestions. I'm just suffering from carry-over in my sitch!
I'm back and hoping to catch up with your sitch ASAP,
thinking of you!
Talk to you soon.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
How are you doing today? I'm cleaning up my basement.. trying to clean up the air hockey table so that I can sell it (there won't be enough room in my future condo). While I'm downstairs I must have missed the home phone ringing.. but I heard my cell phone because it was on "loud".
Well the call was from H.. he asked where I was.. and said that since he's coming up to see D2 (and I) tonight that he'll come up soon.. that way we can go for a coffee or something together. I said alright.. and then proceeded back downstairs to continue cleaning the air hockey table.
Is it just me? I find when he says stuff like this my first thought is always "what bomb does he want to drop on me?" I get myself really worried about it. Anyway, I came back upstairs, noticed I missed a call on the home phone and had a message... was H. Work meeting came up so he'll be later than he intended.. but would still like to do coffee before picking up D2 from daycare. And what do I feel??? Relief! I know we're likely going to still get together for that coffee but with limited time I don't feel as concerned that a bad discussion is going to take place.
I also layed some more grass seed and top soil this morning to save my lawn.. and I watched the movie "because I said so" this morning. Been a rather eventful day so far.
LMAO Where! When H and I were getting together on Saturday my first thought was 'great' and the second was 'why?' I'm always expecting bombs to be dropped.
(((((hugs))))) I hope the coffee goes well. Doesn't it seem like ages ago that H brought you that Starbucks to drink? I can't belive how time is moving on!
