I wish I had the answer for ya. Thats what I keep sayinga bout my ex. When we are together things are great. She has even said things like why couldn't it always have been this way. How do you convince them, that it can always be this way, that they have to take a leap of faith and trust just one more time. Cause if they don't they could lose out on the type of relationship that comes from surviving such trials. That it turns out to be the best, the kind that stories and movies are written about.