Jeff- It is good to remind me that at least I have a choice. Although, sometimes I think that I wish I didn't. Kind of like h4h's wife....wishing our H's would let us go to "make it right". In the end, I hope I will be glad that my H did not give up on me.
Puppy- I'd be the type to melt the ice cube every time I wanted to shop, no problem, if I really wanted to. I am going to think about what you said a little more, though.....hmmmm
Sara- I am heeding your warning of retro being the end all be all. I think I knew this, but it is nice to have something to hold on to when things are bad. I do think our problems are deeper than communication. So, I am thinking just a counselor for myself to deal with this lack of feeling and missing feeling toward H....Or, do you think couples counseling?
