lwb: My brain needs to tell my heart that nothing in the big picture has changed. H still wants out, still wants this D. It just hurts more if OW will be in his future.
This drives me up the wall too, I know how you feel, see my post its full of bitterness and anger with W and OM
Some things in your big picture have chnaged for the better. I believe you have a run this weekend, you'll do great. You are moving on with your life, its going to be great
I have to remember about asking W not to introduce OM to kids, when I file for D. I asked her once or I told her not to, if they have our kids, there is no reason they need to be messing around with someone else. They should be paying attention to the kids not OM/OW
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
