whatdidido: I am unhappy and being unhappy is not good for my child. I need a time frame so that I don't stay in something "just to get through the day" and wake up 10 years later and realize that nothing ever changed.
This is kind of what my W says, not happy, tried, she knows I tried and did everything I could for her, she still wasn't happy, felt the clock ticking and she felt like she was just treading water, going through the motions but getting nowhere. She was acared to wake up 5-10 years from now and still be treading water
What you are feeling is normal, we all feel the changing of the seasons, they move quicker and quicker, in a blink of an eye the years is gone and another one has begun.
You will find out what is right for you, what path you should take. This is a major difference for some of us and you. Our path is/was set for us, we did not get to choose. Its now up to us to forward with our lives.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
