Having serious hunches that OW and H are talking, maybe seeing each other. Just have the little proof that H called OW the other night, don't even know if they talked. But my hunches are never wrong. Odd things here and there.....
None of my business. None of my business. Did I mention its none of my business?
Until the kids are involved.
Even then, after D, that wouldn't be my business. H has readily agreed to not introduce anyone into their lives for a year following D (it will be in writing), I have to trust this also means OW.
My brain needs to tell my heart that nothing in the big picture has changed. H still wants out, still wants this D. It just hurts more if OW will be in his future. I could take another woman in his life, because the betrayal wouldn't be there (for both H and OW). I will work through this. A smart woman (hi SallyM!) told me that I got the 'prize H', OW would be getting the broken, lost man that he is today. I don't want that man.
