Thats great, don't push her anymore, I know it is very frustrating to want something and not be able to have it right now. You are in a good postition, she likes you, likes your company, your going out with friends. Thats her way of telling people that things are looking up for you two. Keep being patient, I know its the hardest thing in the world, especially when you are seeing her like you do. Good luck my friend, I am praying that you and I can beat the odds, and get remarried to our ex's one day.
Lucky dog, I would trade the hugs and kisses that I get when we go out, to be able to be with her every nite. You are on the right track, keep doing what works, it won't be long that you two are having wild, passionate sex all the time.
I wish I could believe that,it has been a long time.I think we are having supper togethre tonight but then we both have meetings to go to. It is so weird how she is keeping her foot in the door,paying for things and buying things for my house and so on. I'm going tocheck out your post now elwood.later
yea Randy, if you check out my post you will see that I would gladly trade sitches with you. You see your ex every nite, you know where she is and with who. YOU. I've been intimate with her twice going on 4 weeks. You on the other hand are with yours everynite. I should be so lucky.
I keep telling myself, if she would just give it a try, she would be so happy. But she would not consider it. I think mine is getting ready for sex with OM. Scares the hell out of me. She said no one would be in her bed unless she was in love with them. What does that tell me about the condoms in her night stand?
But then again what does that say about you being there?Remember they don't do anything they don't want to. You are connecting.It took a year for us to start spending much time together.X said she got off ADs and when I said something about all she said was that if she had to be on a pill to be around me or anyone else it wasn't right,so we will see.
My PMA sucks today,I just get so tired of this I'm not ready BS.X is at my house every night but sometimes I wonder if its because she isn't ready to give up her family instead.She saysshe doesn't know why she won't allow herself to get close.I told her I loved her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her not waiting on her.I think she did quit taking her ADs she just seems short tempered.I don't know?
I hope everyone had a good weekend,min was ok and the X and I spent quite a bit of time together.It's kind of weird because she knows when I get upset about something she said or did and she tries to make it up then by being nicer.She was at the house saturday night and when she left I asked her to stay and she said something about an e-mail she had sent telling me to relax and I said I had been for 3 years.Her reply was "I wish you had been"this shows what DBing has said all along about giving them space,I was the worst DBer in the world but I am getting better.Once again she also bought some stuff for my house,just little things and some stuff for the girls she also helped me work on some stuff all day sunday.Why don't they just come home? What are they looking for?I know she would go crazy if I was doing all those things with another woman.
