Lan, Thanks so much for taking time to put your thoughts together and giving me your impressions of my situation. I will think about what you're advising, and be more intentional about connecting with my W.
I think you're right. She is sending enough signals that she would like more connection, so it's time to start experimenting and see what happens.
It's time to start moving away from the roommate phase.
She's backed-off the PT job request, and has accepted my offer to take on more of the cooking role.
Don't underestimate how dancing has increased the quality of our lives, and how it's allowed me to develop some of the qualities you think I should be striving for. I'm no longer just a guy who reads books and writes. Dancing has been a stretch for me, and is a form of therapy for me IMO.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
