I guess the biggest mistake I made was moving out. I did it under the pretense that I wanted only to make her happy and it wouldn't be fair to make her and really my son to move out. I like what you said about the tree and the roots, that is very wise. Me and my ex do touch, hold hands and have been intimate, but only when we are out of town. She had even shown some of this around our son.
I keep hoping that she will come to her senses and ask me to come back. But there is nothing I can give her that she would want me to come back, except myself. If that happens then I know it is really love and not any knid of material thing. This would really prove that she does love me, but how long can I wait. Every sec is a minute, every min and hr. every hr a day, every day a week every week a month, every month a yr.
Maybe thats where they get that for every year of a bad marriage it takes at least one month. Randy how many yrs did your ex say was bad. Mine said 10. If that is true then 10 mths will have to go by before I can really think about us being together again.
