It's hitting him, but it's too late. Seriously. I know that. They aren't so much questions to him, but hard realities that he has to live. He feels badly for the hurt he's caused but still won't do anything about it. He really thinks everything will be better divorced. I just disagree, but I know this is where my life is going. It's going to be hard as hell and everything will change. I and my kids will never be the same. H won't either, but that's what he wants to happen.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.