Thanks guys for the replies,First off she is a person that may have to be on them forever,she even admits that she can't stand herself if she's not on ADs.Yes I can tell within a couple of days that she ran out.I guess I am in a good postion to make this work. Last night she played ball and the girls didn't want to go because it was too hot so we stayed home.She called when it was done and said the team had been sitting around talking as they do most of the time and and asked if it was ok if she went to her girlfriends house for a while and if I could keep the kids,I said that was fine just be careful.That would have normally been it but then a team mate that was playing another game asked her to come by the game and give her a ride to her bfs and she called me back and asked if that was ok and I kept upbeat and said the same thing as before.I called her this morning and told her since I didn't hear from her when she got home I worried and she said she didn't know I wanted her to call but I could have called her at 1:00am when i woke up.There were several things that show she was trying to make peace and it was nice because once she knew I would keep the kids alnight she could have just been done with me but she kept calling. Sorry this was so long but it is a big change from the old days.I'm looking forward to vacation soon,if the kids get done with all their summer activities.
