A last resort - not sure what to do?

[TwinDad]

I wish WAS's could admit their mistakes. It would make life so much easier! Doesn't seem to work that way though, they are intent on a path of destruction and upheaval.

I don't ever expect to hear it at least in my sitch. I think she is now in a phase of trying to get us back together without it looking like she made a mistake. It used to bother me which I wanted to be right instead of happy. Now it just makes me compassionate in knowing that this has been just as hard on her as it has been on me.

I would stick to your guns on the 50/50 split. You can always say you have hda friends that have gone through this and this was how things were handled. In my sitch I admitted that I had consulted with a L a couple years ago to edicate myself. I even told her that I went to the L because she always threatened D and just wanted to know what it entailed in case she ever decided to pursue that.

I suppose just maintain that we have both contributed in different ways to the marriage.

I guess the extreme example you could use would be the housewife that is married to the successfull business man. If they D, then does the housewife get nothing because she didn't pay for anything?

I do hope you don't dragged into this type of conversation though