Randy buddy,

You still have the same two choices that you have always had. Either to be content with the sitch as it is or to pursue something different. I don't know what the heck her "deal" is. She does seem very content with the sitch. You spend a lot of time together with your kids and that is awesome. That seems to satisfy her needs right now. However it doesn't fully satisfy yours . I just can't see it continuing like this forever. There has got to be a change coming soon but I certainly don't know what will trigger it .