Thanks for the input,I agree and i hate to say it but why is it that the worse you treat a woman the longer it seems they will stay? I know this isn't true for all woman but it happens.I hate to go out and date because she is spending all her spare time around us and she is the type that if I pissed her off she would stop just for the grudge.I need to pull away and let her chase a while. She is getting real comfortable being back at my house as she was there kicked back again when I got off work last night.It's funny how what makes sense to the normal person doesn't make sense to them.Like staying a family and raising your kids.
Another good weekend and holiday.We were together friday,saturday,and sunday.The big surprise was when she put my chair beside hers when we were going to watch the fireworks.I also noticed she called me several times to tell me where she was or what she was going to do.We also did some things together that were what I would call future stuff.She even mentioned that we should put in a pool at my house.I'm sure she is thinking and I am making sure they are good thoughts.
Almost every night when I go home my x is there and then we will eat supper or take the kids and go do something or just hang out and all day on weekends.I guess my question is how do they take that step to come home.We are d but I have told her that is just a piece of paper.I think she knows that it wouldn't be like it is now if I were to give up and strt dateing.I encourage her to take one step at a time so i hope she will.Any of you that have had spouses come home how did it happen?
Once again last night when I got home x was there,I went to work on some rental property and when I got back she had made supper and rearranged the furniture.She stayed until after 10 pm.I wonder every night if that will be the night she stays but I don't let her know this.She should she is there more than not
You still have the same two choices that you have always had. Either to be content with the sitch as it is or to pursue something different. I don't know what the heck her "deal" is. She does seem very content with the sitch. You spend a lot of time together with your kids and that is awesome. That seems to satisfy her needs right now. However it doesn't fully satisfy yours . I just can't see it continuing like this forever. There has got to be a change coming soon but I certainly don't know what will trigger it .
bone neither do I but I agree something will give.I will see her tonight because she is coming over and we are having d b-day party at my house.What I am getting is alot better than a year ago so I will probably travel this road a while longer
Yes I am still attracted to her,She says she has no desire do to the anti-depressants and i know that can happen and since she wasn't really charged up before it doesn't surprise me.We had another good night last night while having d b-day. Tonight we have a program and we have plans tomorrow and sunday so who knows.Have a great weekend.
Does she really need the anti-depressants anymore? if so, what for? Are they what is holding this whole thing back? Is she really taking them at all? Just questions I had.
You guys are divorced right. You sitch sounds somthing like mine. I've been D for 3 months now, seperated for 5. We have seen each other 3 of the last 4 weekends. But only on the weekends. Come Mon. its like she is back in this I don't want to be around him mode. We will be together again this weekeend. 4 out of 5. I envy your position. She is with you just about every night. It seems to me she has taken a step toward you two being together, now she just has to make sure it is wahat she wants forever. If you love her, then accecpt things as they are. You are in a very good position my friend. Just my opionion.
. I just can't see it continuing like this forever. There has got to be a change coming soon but I certainly don't know what will trigger it 
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