Not sure Mike as not there and little scared to say something that might have a big backslide.
Here is my take on it, but remember, this is all just my opinion from the written stuff on here, not in the sitch and not hearing seeing the actions (That's my disclaimer)
Keep as is for a few days and see what her next move is, but maybe initiate the contact if not hearing anything for a day or two (hopefully you'll have reason to by then but can bring in stuff about the two of you if she prompts it).
I assume Brian goes in her place sometimes, try and sneak a look at the books
If you see DB in there, when she joins the forum, post anonymously encouraging her to do everything you would like her too etc etc ....lol
All joking aside (tough for me I know), it's hard to advice when not been in this spot. be interested in someone thoughts who's been there tho !!!
Arthur...thanks for the input.
I agree step back and watch and go from there, have been considering being alittle less dark and iniating some contact, nothing heavy just about kids or something like that.
I don't go to her place, in fact at this point don't know where it's at, I purposely chose not to know as to give her the ultimate amount of space, I would like to know what books she is reading also if the sitch shows its self I may venture out abit and ask her some titles.
When she told me what she was (WAS) after her doing some research my gut dropped, my first thought was she found this site and I was crapping twinkies out of you know where.
All I can do is keep doing what I am doing and make minor adjustments and watch at this point
