Thank you. It's taking every ounce of my being to not tell her how much of a mistake it will be. How most affairs end and why. But this is not my decision to make and I realize that. She has to make it for herself. I can only work on myself and be there when she needs me. I won't pursue her, but I will add a few more texts to her just to see how she is doing and to let her know I'm here if she needs me, especially with the kids.

I must say that I have a clarity now that I haven't had in a long time. I'm seeing things now that were right in front of me but never noticed. I only wish I would have woke up sooner.

Lynn

Last edited by lynn97; 06/17/08 02:59 PM.

ME: 37
W: 32
S11
D6
Together: 14 yrs. Married: 12 yrs.
Previous PA: 8 yrs. ago
Previous EA: 1 yr ago