Thanks for the input,I agree and i hate to say it but why is it that the worse you treat a woman the longer it seems they will stay? I know this isn't true for all woman but it happens.I hate to go out and date because she is spending all her spare time around us and she is the type that if I pissed her off she would stop just for the grudge.I need to pull away and let her chase a while. She is getting real comfortable being back at my house as she was there kicked back again when I got off work last night.It's funny how what makes sense to the normal person doesn't make sense to them.Like staying a family and raising your kids.