Yeah, I wonder if addicts like your H and my H (even though he is a sober alcoholic or used to be last time I checked) are more moody and irritable than non-addicts? My H was nasty on the phone the other night (and I did let it upset me) but then the next day was fine and normal on the phone. He probably either had an argument with OW or maybe the pain of his broken leg made him horrible. It's silly to waste time being upset over their anger issues; although easier said than done of course!!! Karen