Not sure Mike as not there and little scared to say something that might have a big backslide.

Here is my take on it, but remember, this is all just my opinion from the written stuff on here, not in the sitch and not hearing seeing the actions (That's my disclaimer)

Keep as is for a few days and see what her next move is, but maybe initiate the contact if not hearing anything for a day or two (hopefully you'll have reason to by then but can bring in stuff about the two of you if she prompts it).

I assume Brian goes in her place sometimes, try and sneak a look at the books

If you see DB in there, when she joins the forum, post anonymously encouraging her to do everything you would like her too etc etc ....lol

All joking aside (tough for me I know), it's hard to advice when not been in this spot. be interested in someone thoughts who's been there tho !!!