One of the best things I got was when my H started texting little jokes to me, or joking with me. I think you are right in keeping the conversation light and fun..no pressure...just show her that you still have a sense of humor.
Women have a tendency not to come right out and ask, but beat around the bush. Don't ask why...I'm not sure it could be fear, anxiety, or something of that nature, so that bachelor question was, IMO, a way to find out if you are truly a "bachelor". My suggestion, although telling her you are out dating and having a jolly time isn't the answer, let her wonder just a little. Don't come on too strong, but certainly don't let her know everything either!!!
Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..