Last night went ok. We both got home later than we wanted to. At home, I found out that she let nephew friend take her to work in the morning because he went to work at 11am. He works at the same restraunt as nephew. That means that she had to go pick up her car during lunch.
I wonder how she got there? Hmmm. Rat bastard, thats who! I just know it.
Roomie keeps floundering on if she will go to Laredo with her sister alone or all of us together. She talks to her aunt over there, and I can hear her very upset. They talk for a while. Last I heard from roomie was we were all going. After the phone call, she says, "Well, do ya'll want to go or not?"
I tell her, "You keep changing your mind! Go alone. We can stay here. You want to go with your sister."
She says, "I don't know what I want! Make the decision for me."
I sit there next to her. I'm thinking, "What is going on with her?" I tell her ok, we are all going. Done.
The rest of the evening went well.
We are up early and preparing stuff and cleaning house. I check on the car and fix the window, again. I try to probe about yesterday. When did the window go down? After your lunch? The shares a little info, but not much. Then she says, "Why?"
I say no reason, just trying to see why no one could help you with the window. I wanted to ask her why her BOYFRIEND couldn't fix her window!
I held it in. We know each other too well. She knows what I was trying to do. And I know what she was trying to do.
I bought roomie a sympathy card. Has some Proverbs in it. I wrote in it that I'm sorry about grandpa. You know that you can lean on me if you need to.
I'll give it to her on the way out of town.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."