What if he wants to talk about the relationship? What if he asks how I am? What should I say?
I would have no problem in telling him something along the lines of "I am sad for us and I miss us". I wouldn't go on and on, but just simply state it. Assuming this is how you feel. If he responds with something similar I wouldn't fall into the trap of "so why are we doing this" I would just vlidate him by saying yes this is very sad.
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I am going to look different from when he last saw me as I have had my hair cut and I'll make sure I look good, but he looks terrible at the mo (or he did) so would that put him off and make him feel like he can't live up to me even more?
Has this been an issue for him in the past? If it hasn't thenn by all means look good! Remember us guys are very visual! and we want our W to look good. PLus it lets him know what he is missing out on.
Chances are if he is not looking good then, he is not sleeping well and is having a very hard time dealing with this as well....he is not likely to admit it but it will show.
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Should I meet him tomorrow or put him off?
I wouldn't put him off...it could be seen as being controlling or passive aggressive
Do you have to sell the home if it is yours?
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
