thanks for the reply tbone,it has been awhile.I just keep chugging along.We are spending 10 times more time together than 6 months ago. I hope this is a good sign.I told her a couple of weeks a gao when she started getting distant that i couldn't keep playing this game and she had better decide if she wanted to be involved or not.Well the next day and ever since she has been pretty involved.The thing is my grocery bill has gone up but I guess thats whatI have to deal with. oh well the good with the bad.She has to get it through her head that a good relationship doesn't mean you will never disagree about anything it just means that when a problem comes up you work it out together.
