It has been a while since I replied on your thread and I can't believe she is still "stuck". I think this whole board is unsure what to tell you. Your sitch is great for the kids but so hard on you. Your patience is comparable to Zebra's and amazes me. I have said in the past to pursue other people to fill that gap in your life and either you might find someone great or she will become "unstuck", or both. You seem to be asking a little more lately for what you need and that seems to be working so keep doing what works.
