Journaling: Yesterday was tough. The court thing went well. I had group which is always a good thing. My STBXW hit me with the fact that she is taking a "personal" vacation this summer. It is a very thin lie about spending a week with the OM. She even expects to pay for it out of family funds. I definitely said no to that option. It just burns me that she does nothing with the kids but was the time to see OM for a week. It is so hard to live in the same house as your wife when she is having an A and Divorcing you. I can't get away from her.