L-I totally like your train of thought on "future" talk and dropping in "we" if it comes up. I realize now that I guess I was purposely bringing up the future to try and elicit some sort of reaction from him or gauge what he thought. I won't do that anymore, especially since it is obvious he is confused.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF