If pre and extra marital sex is a sin, so is not having sex with your spouse a sin.
I really do like this as I am Catholic and am currently "recovering" from the good girls dont F***! ...... or for that matter even think about or enjoy sex.
Maybe it would help YOU to look at it like that too..... we are unintentinally taught by our Parents about sex. Whether they say a word about it or not. My Mom pretty much didnt say anything either and .......... well you get the point. I personally love this cause I honestly never looked at it from this POV! An epiphany .... SEx between my H and I pleases GOD! WOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO all the more reason to ML! Sorry for the hijack... got really excited when I read that!
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You are getting fabulous advice here.... take your time and start moving forward slowly. It took a while to get here and it will take some time to make real lasting change. I also like the 100th time way of looking at it. That does make perfect sense also. Explain to your H that it will take time to feel natural. But practice makes perfect!
Lou's post was great with all the advice.... All my best to you and your H~ Take care and God bless, ~Ali
