Quote: It seems like xw invites me to eat at her place alot and I was just wondering should I say no thank you are try to spend as much time together that she initiates.
it may serve you well to have some "life" outside of her...therefore you wouldn't always be at her disposal and ocassionaly would have other plans when she asks...but I would not turn her down just for spite.
Quote: I have always believed that if she had wanted out she would have gotton all her stuff and moved it no matter what.
that may be true.
Quote: She wants to be involved in all my $$ decisions and then when she does quit asking questions you can tell she has something else to say.
don't a$$ume anything...
Quote: Is it alright to ask her out as long as it isn't everyday.
it's funny that you end your post with this question wich is the opposite of what you started with wondering if you should start turning down her offers and end with wondering if you should ask her out??