He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[lost_in_space]

BH

I agree with gForce. I am getting to believe that "going dark" isn't necessarily the right thing to do for everyone. For me, serious detaching was seen as indifference, to the point where WW said it was obvious by my actions that I didn't care if she was here or not. So I toned that down.

I know this may be a "cop out" but you have to do what is right for you. For me, it seems that the opposite of "going dark" is the 180 that has created some baby steps in the right direction. BUT, as I said, you have to do what is right for you and only you know that.