His job/schedule is such that it is difficult to have 3 weeks in a row since he travels out of town, although I am sure that was the intent of his lawyer. However, the part that frustrates me is he doesn't see any reason to have D17 spend the night unless I have a reason (like when I went out of town for my mom's surgery). Why doesn't he see that D17 enjoys being with him for more than a movie and dinner????? Both D17 and I have told him. Guess he only hears what he wants to hear!