OK I have a question for anyone that is listening. Today I spoke with the wife and she was PISSED off at me for some reason. The last time I spoke to her was on fathers day and all was well, she was telling me about the night they had bowling with the kids and heck we were even laughing. Monday comes around and I call to talk to my son and just making small talk asked how her day was, that was a mistake! When I asked her that she said she couldn't be any f'ing better. So that peaked my curiosity a little and asked if she wanted to talk about it and her reply was is this small talk or what?? All I said was I am sorry that you feel so bad but I am just trying to be friendly and try to help you. She then replied that we already tried that and it didn't work, she was referring to the friends part. I don't know what was bothering her.
So my question is do I talk to her and try to find out what was bothering her or do I leave it alone?
Ted
I believe she is pissed because she invited you to go bowling on Father's day with her and your child (can't remember if Boy or girl)and you declined. She's pissed about that. JMO for what it's worth.
You said you wanted to go but chose to work on homework. She saw that as not very friendly.
You may want to apologize for missing that bowling date the other day..apologize and then leave it alone. Damn man, it was father's day. She saw she messed it up for you, called to try and make amends with you by offering bowling with her and the kids and you turned her down..
YOU did not put HER first. Women don't like that.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 06/17/0810:49 AM.
