Life gets easier when you don't see them for a while. You get a break from their spinning and drama. You know when you see them that there is a chance of being sucked in again. As time goes on you get stronger and you realize that this is so much the MLC'ers problem.

I remember last year everytime I saw my H my heart would break. All the old feelings would come flooding back and I got desperate to have him back home.

Now when I see him, it is easier. My emotions don't take over and I have accepted him as he is. A man in MLC. I am able to continue on with my life without becoming obsessed with his every move/action/statement.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11